A marriage Counsellor, Reverend Charlotte Oduro has admonished girls to support their broke boyfriends who are blessed with wisdom with money to set up businesses and stop chasing rich men otherwise known as sugar daddies with cars and other properties.
According to her, there are some boys who have vision of setting up businesses to better their lives but lack the resources to do so.
She observed that majority of girls want the easy way out thereby shunning boys who are poor and going in for rich men who are visionless and have no future.
Wife of the founder of Royal Victory Family Church International said some girls prefer the rich men to the poor ones because they lavish monies on them based on the monies they sometimes inherit.
She said it’s better for girls to build the future with
their boyfriends who have vision of making it in life than to be chasing men
for material stuffs.
Speaking on Hitz FM monitored by MyNewsGh.com, she admonished saying, ‘Girls will go like I want a guy who has money and can take good care of me, yes its ok but sometimes you also need to help the guy. There are some guys who don’t have monies in their pockets today but they will have the money tomorrow, they carry vision, they carry life, they carry a lots inside them.
There are people today who have cars, money but they don’t
have vision, if you marry them today because of their cars, let me tell you the
guy you rejected, ten years to come you will bow before that guy. Why don’t we
be ready to support guys who have vision with cash, they have the vision but
they don’t have physical cash’.
She wondered why some girls just want to be baby mamas to rich men just to acquire a house, a car and travels when the wives have all the plenty cars and houses at their disposal.
The Marriage Counsellor observed that majority of broke boys become successful in future advising girls to support them with the needed money to go into businesses where they will enjoy the fruits of their labour.
In her view, women will be respected by their partners if they don’t depend on men for everything they need in life urging them to stop wasting their time with rich men who will end up wasting their time.
‘Girls are following boys with money because they want Gucci shoes, Gucci bags, if you want Gucci bags go buy it for yourself, women need to start doing some things for themselves and stop saying I want a guy who has money, he’s in US, he’s in Canada, please, are you paralysed can’t you work, can’t you do something for yourself, if women will learn this, men will not come cheating on us,’ She advised in the interview monitored by MyNewsGh.com.